The
energy which created religion as a trace in the process of working itself out
is very real. On the other hand, the process that creates every religion turns
the free-play of signifiers that was in the beginning into a game with rules
and borders. One is not allowed to edit and revise those rules or redraw those
borders once the game is in progress; seeing any gap between the map and the
territory strips the emperor naked, un-tunes the sky and makes it harder for
the simply devout to properly digest their food, whether we are talking about
material bread or spiritual sustenance. A shaman is a visionary walking between
worlds, gesturing madly in an attempt to make us see the absence of everything
missing from our side of the divide. We live inside a map which is one of the
worlds the shaman walks between. The shaman is no prophet. She does not claim
exclusive rights to anything. She leaves no true map of things to ensnare later
travelers.
“What, do you imagine that I would take so much trouble and so much pleasure in writing, do you think that I would keep so persistently to my task, if I were not preparing - with a rather shaky hand - a labyrinth into which I can venture, in which I can move my discourse, opening up underground passages, forcing it to go far from itself, finding overhangs that reduce and deform its itinerary, in which I can lose myself and appear at last to eyes that I will never have to meet again.
I am no doubt not the only one who writes in order to have no face. Do not ask who I am and do not ask me to remain the same: leave it to our bureaucrats and our police to see that our papers are in order. At least spare us their morality when we write.” –Michel Foucault
I am no doubt not the only one who writes in order to have no face. Do not ask who I am and do not ask me to remain the same: leave it to our bureaucrats and our police to see that our papers are in order. At least spare us their morality when we write.” –Michel Foucault
Nov 28, 2014
Nov 27, 2014
Ferguson for Thanksgiving
It was almost sadistic to
release the grand jury's findings just before Thanksgiving. For many of us,
Thanksgiving will be something to get through rather than something to enjoy
because that elephant will be in the room with us. The divide on this issue is
not between black and white but between people who are essentially decent and
people who are not. The most disturbing aspect of the situation is how
accurately one can predict which side of that divide someone wearing a badge is
on knowing nothing more about them than that they are wearing a badge.
The officers threatened with
termination unless they removed the "I am Darren Wilson" bracelets
they had previously worn, on duty, in Ferguson, while working crowd control at
protests triggered by Mike Brown's murder, were not "bad apples";
they were good cops as cops themselves define that term. Their only fault was
being honest about who they were and what their values were in a way and in a
situation where doing so was less than useful to Darrin Wilson and all the
other fine people who were doing their best to see that Wilson got away with murder the way cops normally do. When
Darren Wilson says that he was just doing his job, more cops believe him than
not and further judge anyone who does not believe him as having issues with
authority, wanting an excuse to do some looting or being otherwise motivated by
something much less respectable than a simple desire for justice.
2+2=4. What happened to Mike
Brown was murder, a hate crime and the most heinous possible example of causing
death while violating civil rights under color of law. The second statement is
as true and obvious as the first. The horror of what happened in Ferguson goes well beyond what Darren Wilson did. The full
horror of Ferguson is the personal, gut reaction of almost every other
cop in America to what he did; most cops would agree with Darren
Wilson that he was just doing his job.
Darren Wilson would not stand
out in any way in a large room containing a random sample of cops. Most cops are
Darren Wilson. Michael Brown is dead not because of a bad apple but because he
encountered a cop who defined doing his job about the way most cops do. This is
how policing is done now. What passes for "law enforcement" makes a
mockery of the claim that America is a democracy characterized by the rule of law and
respect for the rights of citizens; anyone who could make that claim with a
straight face is either in denial or has no idea what cops do all day to earn
their pay.
Nov 25, 2014
On learning to teach English as a second language: first comment
The contrast between the descriptive
studies of various languages in use done by linguists and the prescriptive
approach involved in what most people mean when they say “grammar” could not be
greater. Over the last three decades or so, I've taught this kind of “grammar”
as part of my official job description as an instructor of Rhetoric and
Composition at various community colleges. When I first started teaching those
classes, I had to learn prescriptive English grammar so that I could teach it.
Many people learn to speak something that is close enough to Standard English
to pass for it in most settings without learning the formal rules well enough
to pass a really rigorous grammar test. Some even learn to write well enough to
practice law or make a living in journalism without being able to state most of
the rules they do obey many more times than not in writing their legal briefs
or newspaper articles.
On the other hand, I speak from many
years of experience in asserting that teaching someone who writes badly enough
grammar to pass a really rigorous grammar test will not always improve their
writing all that much. Some people can understand grammar at the level of
abstraction without automatically following those rules when they compose text;
others consistently follow abstract grammar rules they could not state clearly
if asked why the words of their text are strung together the way they are. Many
people know what is “right” well enough to communicate very effectively in both
speaking and writing but could not tell you what exactly most of the
spontaneous choices they make in the process would appeal to in response to a
question about why they are right.
I'm writing a lot about the written
form even though linguists more often than not mean the spoken form when they
speak of language and see the written form as an attempt to transcribe the
spoken language. The great “aha” insight that came to me only recently was the
realization that my own engrained and habitual way of thinking about language
amounts to seeing spoken discourse as text performed under conditions that
severely limit the quality of that performance.
This is natural for a person whose pattern of thinking and feeling was shaped
at least as much by the vicarious experience provided by reading as by his own
immediate experience participating in the particular way of life that
socialized most of his peers. I've only been tutoring ESL for a few months and, thus,
still think like someone who read constantly as a kid, later decided he wanted
to be a writer and ended up as a teacher of writing and literature.
On the other hand, I'm noticing for the first time how little
help knowing how to spell English words gives someone who is trying to say the
word rather than to read it or writ it.
My first few students were all Puerto Ricans who amazed me by being able
to read anything in English they wanted, enjoy American movies without needing
sub-titles and understand me pretty well most of the time when I spoke to them.
What they could not do, at first, was to get their needs met here in Florida without great difficulty. In
many different settings, they faced the maddening frustration of understanding
what other people said in reply to their attempts to communicate well enough to
be absolutely sure of the failure of these attempts.
The pronunciation of a word is not a
fact that one comes to know but something one learns to do with one's mouth.
That is what I need to learn to take for granted to be really helpful to my
students, but it goes totally against the grain of how I have thought about
words up until now. Knowing how a given language works both as sounds made in a
particular way and as a process whereby these sounds come to mean more than
they are is the goal of linguistics. It is also a habitual way of thinking
about language. I need to acquire that habit in order to be more helpful to
persons who are trying to learn a second language. I need to learn to describe what I do, with
my mouth and otherwise, in speaking English in order to teach anyone else to
speak English. I've decided that the main difference between a very patient
native speaker of English and someone who really knows how to teach English as
a second language flows from this capacity to describe what you are doing when
you speak English in the way that a linguist would.
When I started volunteering as an ESL tutor I thought that tutoring ESL would be very similar to
teaching college-transfer or developmental English, as I have already been
doing for years. I've enjoyed tutoring immensely more than I expected because
tutoring ESL has turned out to be fundamentally different from anything else
I've done before. I'm learning things about how language is used and acquired
that I did not know in spite of years spent being obsessed with language and
determined to acquire greater skill in the use of language. I've learned enough
about how teaching a second language ought to be done to be amazed at how
turnip-witted some of my previous assumptions were. I'm muddling through and
getting better and realizing that there is so much that I haven't learned yet
about how to do this that I can almost certainly expect to be much better at
something very much worth doing even just a year from today than I am right
now. I had said for years that, even though I had never officially taught an ESL class, I had in practice taught
a lot of ESL just given who shows up for your classes if you agree to teach
developmental English in Houston, Texas, especially at a satellite campus in
the inner city. I always enjoyed those classes and my department chair always
made it a point to be nice to me. He knew that he would someday need someone
once again to teach a developmental course in a “bad” neighborhood that was
fully enrolled to the cap but would cancel anyway for lack of an instructor if
I did not take it. I like teaching ESL better than anything else I have
ever done and genuinely regret that I did not discover ESL sooner.
Nov 9, 2014
Autism, ESL and Second Life
Second
Life (SL) is being used to teach ESL internationally with,
admittedly, a selection bias favoring rich nations and the better-off in poor
nations. People come to SL for many reasons, but
the desire to learn spoken English is high on the list. Anyone who puts significant
effort into building a "second-life" is seeking some supplement, in
exactly Derrida's sense, to their first-life (Derrida, n.d.). ESL learners
are supplementing their first-lives with a virtual immersion in the English
language. In turn, this immersion is supplemented by resources available in SL
but not in first-life immersion. Someone taught in school to read English but
not to speak it would gain little from first-life immersion. In SL, he would
find an abundance of ESL activities
and even more activities, also conducted in English, for people who share some
common interest. He could spend his entire second-life attending ESL
activities and practicing English. He could type a word and immediately see and
hear the English translation. He could use voice but also share text with a
group or IM individuals.
"Shiaida
Palianta" is a British ESL
teacher who has spent thirty years in Hong Kong teaching Cantonese speakers,
many already using written English to communicate with Mandarin speakers and the
outside world, to speak English. Globally, people literate in English far
outnumber people who are mutually comprehensible speaking English. Many who are
literate struggle to become comprehensible to native speakers defined as the
largest sample of persons who are mutually comprehensible speaking English. A
huge population literate in English has been drawn into SL by a keen interest
in joining this conversation of the mutually comprehensible. They are in the
right place.
The
best Virtual Learning Environment (VLE) is a better place for persons literate
in English to learn to speak than the best first-world setting; the virtual
supplements the actual in ways that make the actual a pale imitation of the
virtual. Shiaida Palianta's ability to multi-task, using every available resource
to keep everyone in their personal Zone of Proximal Development (ZPD), is astonishing. During her English News Clips!, we read texts aloud
and talk about them. Her co-host is 'Leee Megadon", a Mandarin speaker who
keeps the group moving mostly via IMs and public text. The use
of IM or text to provide scaffolding, either backchannel to individual users or
shared with everyone, makes it possible to give help without breaking the
continuity of conversation. All of us do this, often IMing or texting the
written version of a word or pronouncing it for a speaker who can't say it but
can write it. We also look at pictures and describe them while being primed
for new vocabulary by leading questions and requests for further elaboration; a
word is remembered when it is provided exactly when the learner is searching
for just that word. Constant double coding of the spoken with the written plus
pictures that make new words immediately useful works very well. Instant
translation into English helps, especially since the translation is both
written and spoken, as does access to the Internet.
All
of our regulars are literate but not (as defined above) native speakers. They
come mostly from non-English speaking countries where English is required for
graduation from high school or college. They, collectively, are an object
lesson in what English as a Foreign Language (EFL) in the schools of a
non-English speaking country typically can and cannot accomplish. All fit a
single learner profile so closely that the same VLE and teaching style works
for everyone. English News Clips!
uses their literacy to help them learn to converse in a way that would not be
possible without the tools available in SL.
Admittedly,
this only works because Shiaida Palianta spent years in Hong
Kong teaching people already
literate in English to speak. She then learned how to use the resources of SL
to supplement what she could do in a first-life classroom. I would still claim
that the supplement provided by SL makes possible something that is more effective with this
population than anything she could do in first-life. Remember also that we could
never routinely meet in first-life. Given a computer, anyone anywhere can join
us. SL makes it possible to deliver instruction fine-tuned to the needs of any
sub-population. English Language Learners (ELL) who are autistic are one
example. SL eliminates first-world location as a constraint on participation
but not time. English News Clips! takes
place at 5am SL (Pacific)
time, 8am
(Eastern) time and 4pm Moscow time.
Much
work has been done in VLE to help autistics remedy a lack of social skills (Mitchell, Parsons,
& Leonard, 2007). Lack of social skills is the only disability many High-Functioning
Autistics (HFA) suffer. SL provides a supplement to first world interaction teaching
skills that are normally not taught but acquired, as is language, during normal
development (Mangan, 2008). Autistics acquiring social skills are strikingly
similar to ELL immersed without scaffolding; they and others are frustrated by
their inability to "pick it up" by osmosis. The result is often Social
Avoidance Disorder (SAD) as a secondary symptom of Autistic Spectrum Disorder (ASD).
An
extensive support network has grown up in SL to provide safe spaces where
autistics can interact without "faking normal" to be accepted and rehearsal
spaces where new approaches to being with others can be tried out in a
risk-free environment where failure triggers not rejection but a
"time-out" to explain what faux pas was just committed, followed by a
discussion of how to avoid doing it again and/or deal better with the blow-back
if it does. The potential of virtual worlds to improve the lives of persons
suffering from life-long disabilities is potentially transformative (Stendal, Balandin,
& Molka-Danielsen, 2011; Education Week, 2011). Enough people cross-trained
in Instructional Design/Special Ed. to design the required VLE is the only
limiting factor.
I
could not find ESL events
created specifically for autistics in SL. To the extent that this population
acquires language in atypical ways, which they definitely do, an event
fine-tuned to those differences would make sense. Autistics do not, for
example, follow the normal progression in learning their first language and
probably would not in learning a second language (Eigsti, Bennetto, &
Dadlani, 2007).
One of Asperger's original cases went on to major in foreign languages (Wire,
2005). A few autistics speak with an authentic accent that is not the dominate
accent of their home or neighborhood. These few are worth mentioning because
all known cases were autistic; these few apparently were extreme examples of a
greater capacity among autistics for exact mimicry. A talent for memorizing
rules works to their advantage to the extent that languages are rule bound but
is a source of frustration when exceptions are encountered (Wire, 2005).
I
know from personal experience working with HFA in SL that they very often
prefer texting to FTF
conversation because text fails to code context cues that they miss FTF and thus
puts them at less of a relative disadvantage. Emoticons are useful as a
substitute for this information. Simultaneously seeing text of what is being
said helps whether they are speaking or listening (Yahya & Yunus,
2012). The idea
that speaking is ephemeral and fleeting while text is something solid that one
can refer back to when feeling lost was often expressed. Autistics, especially the 20% functioning in
the normal range of intelligence, tend to have larger speaking vocabularies and
a better gasp of syntax and phonology than would be predicted by their IQs. The
difficulties in communication suffered by this upper 20% are exclusively a
matter of pragmatics (Seung, 2007). These difficulties are symptomatic of the
lack of a theory of mind sufficient to allow inference from what is said to
what goes without saying or goes unsaid (Colle, Baron-Cohen,
Wheelwright, & Van der Lely, 2008). Inferring this background provides most of us
with the context of use and intention that is the field within which the
utterance as figure is fixed. Failure to read this context creates the painful
sense of being on-stage without a script that many HFA use to describe how lost
and clueless they often feel during social interactions.
HFA
are natural linguists. The best way to teach them a second language might be to
teach them everything a linguist would say about that language. To the extent
that languages follow rules, HFA seem to have an absolute advantage in learning
languages in any environment where their "why" questions about a
spelling or a pronunciation can be answered by stating a rule. Even "there
is a distribution rule that governs that pronunciation but I can't remember it
off the top of my head" might work if students were also taught where
online to go and how to search for rules the teacher can not remember. A VLE
might be the best place to teach ESL for
autistics. Online classes exclusively made up of this target population could
be taught or the site could serve as the enrichmen/accommodation that made a
language class hybrid for the one autistic in a first-life class.
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Nov 3, 2014
Altruism
The
cultural animal is altruistic because the cultural animal’s particular kind of
agent self is a looking-glass self that begins to be created early in
development, typically around 30 months, by internalizing the responses of the
set of significant others important to the developing person at that time. At
first, the other-directed emotions of shame and guilt are felt when a
significant observer reacts in sharply negative fashion to an observed
behavior. An important next step comes when the developing human learns to
accurately imagine how a significant other who may or may not be actually
present would react to an action that was just performed or is being
contemplated. Each layer of development added makes the developing animal more
cultural and the “selfish” actions of this looking-glass self-agent more
other-directed.
Finally, a generalized other emerges as the
constant audience and judge of the actions of a self so fundamentally
other-directed that almost every action, even those never witnessed by any
actual other, are for the other and selfish at the same time for a self that
is for the other if not all the way
down at least very, very deeply down. In the fully mature cultural animal that
the typical adult usually becomes, all actions are either for or in spite of this generalized other or some literal other
present or imagined as the audience of the action. Actions in spite of make us feel guilt or shame. I do not feel comfortable
saying that only our in spite of
actions are selfish. I also do not feel comfortable saying that our for actions are finally selfish because
they are performed to make us feel better. Given the way we cultural animals
develop as such, it would be utterly amazing if we did not routinely do things
with the ultimate goal of benefiting other persons and feel really good about
ourselves when we do.
“The
empathy-altruism hypothesis claims that pro-social motivation associated with
feeling empathy for a person in need is directed toward the ultimate goal of
benefiting that person, not toward some subtle form of self-benefit” (Batson et
al., 1988, p. 52). This is the clearest statement I have found of the Batson
position. It essentially argues that altruistic behaviors are based on feelings
of empathy for others that lead us to perform actions that contribute to the
well-being of these others. The phrase “not toward some subtle form of
self-benefit” is where the argument with Cialdini starts. Cialdini and those of
his camp want to say that if any form of subtle self-benefit can account for
altruistic behavior then these behaviors are not truly altruistic. Their
research agenda is an attempt to explain all forms of seemingly altruistic
behavior in terms of such subtle forms of self-benefit. Batson’s counter-agenda
is an attempt to design experiments that control for these “subtle forms of
self-benefit” without eliminating altruistic responses. If Cialdini were on
fire and I put him out with a foam fire extinguisher, he would claim after the
fact that I only did it because it lowered my level of distress when he stopped
running around and screaming and instead lay quietly on the floor repeating “Oh
God, oh God” over and over. When Batson heard of this, he would immediately
begin trying to design an experiment that would determine if I would have used
the fire extinguisher on Cialdini in circumstances such that this reduction in
my own level of distress would not have resulted. All the references cited in
our textbook are examples of this agenda or this counter-agenda. The long spiel
I opened with was meant as an explanation of why I see the whole dispute as
being somewhat silly.
A 1991
study used a sample of 252 college students with a heavily female skew
(198/252) in three experiments testing the hypothesis that helping behavior was
motivated by the joy that those helping could expect to experience vicariously
when the individual’s situation improved (Batson et al., 1991). These were
factorial studies controlling for level of empathy (low/high) and chance of
experiencing vicarious joy (20%/50%/80%). The patterns that emerged were not at
all consistent with what would have been predicted if helping were motivated by
the chance of experiencing vicarious joy. Vicarious joy is therefore not a
“subtle form of self-benefit” sufficient to explain the helping that actually
took place. This does not prove that this altruistic behavior was motivated by
simple empathy with no ultimate goal beyond benefiting the person helped but
the results are not inconsistent with this claim. This is the typical move of
the Batson camp agenda: take some “subtle form of self-benefit” put forward by
the Cialdini camp as a motive for helping behavior, control for it as an
independent variable, and show that the level of this independent variable
makes no difference to the dependent variable whereas the level of empathy,
measured as another dependent variable, does.
The idea of
a 2x2 factorial design looking at (low/high empathy) and (ease/difficulty of
escape) as the levels of the two independent variables was looked at in a 1981
study by Batson et al. Once again, we have empathy and a second independent
variable cross-controlling for each other. The idea is that if watching someone
else suffer gives us an egotistic motive to help, then how easily we can escape
watching them suffer should also determine how willing to help we are. On the
other hand, if our response is rooted in pure empathy, whether we can escape
watching or must continue to watch should not have much impact on our
willingness to help. The results showed that in high empathy subjects, how easy
it was to escape did not predict helping whereas in the low empathy subjects,
it did. The low empathy subjects helped more when escape was hard and not as
much when escape was easy. Empathy motivated helping even when escape was easy.
Egoistic motives did so only when escape was hard. The implication is that
empathy always generates altruistic behavior whereas egoistic motives sometimes
do but not as reliably as high levels of empathy. High empathy alone is enough
to generate altruistic behaviors at both levels of the second egoistic
independent variable (Batson, Duncan, Ackerman, Buckley, & Birch, 1981).
In another
study, a total of 100 participants broken down into three age categories (6-8,
10-12, and 15-18) were used to try to resolve contradictory findings about
altruism and negative mood (Cialdini & Kenrick, 1976). Some studies had
shown a positive correlation between negative mood and altruism and some had
not. The study authors hypothesized that if negative mood does correlate with
altruism, this would indicate that altruism has the egoistic motive of cheering
the altruist up. They further surmised that the contradiction in the original
studies were caused by not taking age, and therefore level of socialization, into
account, which is why they broke their sample up into three age categories. The
three groups were encouraged to think of either depressing or neutral events
and then given the chance to be generous. The younger subjects were actually
less generous after thinking depressing thoughts but this reversed with
increasing age and level of socialization until the opposite pattern was seen
for the oldest group. These results indicate that the self-rewarding impact of
benevolence on mood is an artifact of socialization.
Thomas and
Batson (1981) conducted a study to establish that normative pressure to help
may actually undermine the self-reward that comes from being spontaneously
altruistic. This was another 2x2 factorial design in which the independent
variables were receiving help/no help and a second variable was based on being
told either that most people helped or that few people helped. The dependent
variable was how altruistic subjects felt as determined by a survey hidden in
materials given out to disguise the actual purpose of the research. The
subjects who felt most altruistic were those who helped without having received
help and were told that very few people helped.
Normative pressure, especially normative pressure based on the principle
of reciprocity and a strong social consensus about what one “ought” to do, is
often put forward as an explanation of helping behavior that is egoistic and
self-serving rather than being determined by a genuine empathically based
concern for the other. Showing that responding to such normative pressures
actually makes people feel less altruistic when they help is another way to
attack the idea that altruism is finally self-serving in this way. Please
forgive me if this fast sprint through only five research articles has given
the impression that I do not take the subject seriously. It is more that the
two well-established camps involved in the debate have defined the terms of the
debate in a way that is not all the interesting from my perspective.
I spend a lot of time on the
Internet. I am something of a connoisseur of weirdness. I seek out unusual
people online and, more often than not, on those rare occasions when I travel,
I am going to meet someone in real-time I have gotten to know well online. Most
of the people I communicate with online I will never meet in real-time. Many of
them live in New Zealand for some
reason. One person I got to know online knowing that I would never meet her in
real-time was the only homeless woman in America, as far as I know, who managed
in spite of being officially homeless to have a blog. She had a computer
science degree from University of Maryland and had
tapped into the power-lines while living in a sort of yurt in a forested area
of Northern Virginia. Years before, she had
worked for the Department of Justice and had helped win the big anti-trust suit
against Micro-soft by hyper-linking all the documents together in one big file
in a way that was innovative at the time. She was a high functioning autistic
who after losing many jobs and suffering many frustrations moved out into the
woods to avoid further trauma.
She had a
real genius for online search and I paid her small amounts of money to do
research for me. This was one way that she bought food and replaced her
electronics gear as it wore out. I enjoyed reading her blog and remained a
regular contributor and online friend even after she managed to cost me one of
my own jobs and a couple of valuable professional connections just being who
she was. To be fair, I also made several friends based on my gutsy willingness
to be publicly associated with someone whose letters to the Washington Post
often got lengthy replies and caused odd sub-conflicts to spin-off from
important political issues. Many people knew about the crazy genius woman out
in the woods even though no one knew exactly where her yurt was located.
At some
point, she began to complain about her teeth. She had not seen a dentist for
years and was never highly focused on dental hygiene. She would not let me pay
for dental work. She also spent anything I paid her on food, including sweets,
and computer gear all the time she was complaining about her teeth. Finally,
she as changed but I’m not sure it has improved. Mine has improved.
I asked all
my housemates how to answer this question and they all gave the same reply.
Suzie says that I’m always the one who takes care of her when she is sick.
David and Kathy mention that I’m always willing to do errands and everyone
pointed out that I’m the one who takes out the garbage and cleans the cat’s
liter boxes not because these tasks were assigned to me in any official way but
because I started doing them and everyone now thinks of these as my tasks. I’ve
ended up doing the things no one else wants to do. I believe altruism to be
very real for all the reasons I presented in the first paragraphs of this essay.
A cultural animal, with a self that is other-directed almost all the way down,
is capable of being selfish on behalf of a self that can, on occasion, expand
to include all life anywhere in the universe. It would make me happy to learn
that we are not alone in this universe for all the same reasons that it makes
me happy to have friends that I will never have the chance to hug in New
Zealand. It makes me happy when the
Democrats win elections or when one of my students from Pakistan gets
admitted to the engineering program at Texas A&M partially because I put a
lot of time and all the rhetorical skill I possess into writing a letter of
recommendation. In less than 600 words, I skillfully undermined every negative
stereotype about Muslims that might have gotten in his way so subtly that I’m
sure the engineering committee never realized how carefully everything they
were reading had been spun to my student’s advantage. The glory of a cultural
animal is the way the very nature of this looking-glass-self, other-directed
almost all the way down, makes it difficult to say what is altruistic and what
is selfish. I want to argue that, the more cultural an animal becomes, the
harder this distinction is to draw and, perhaps, the less meaning it has in
actual practice.
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